The problem with right and wrong, good and evil, is that everyone has their own take to it.
There is no universal standard.
For example, marrying a nine year old was at one point acceptable, somewhere and was perhaps the norm.
It all boils down to what you focus on. Was being sneaky something to look up to? SOmething to admire? SOmething to aspire to? No?
Ask your spouse. I don't know and I don't care.
I only know that all this is a waste of time. I'm better off writing and doing my work so I could be rich and leave this country to retire somewhere nice and quiet.
I'd sit down and watch the world end.
Or go read a book, which is what I'm going to do now.