Barrack Obama wrote, in his book dreams from my father, that his grandfather said, "Confidence. That is the secret to a man's success."
While I do agree that in some cases, you can CONvince some women to have buttsex with you, CONfidence is generally spoiled for me because it is associated with the phrase 'confidence man'. Otherwise known as 'con man'.
No, man. The secret of success can be about being present.
I'm about to go into a meeting in a bit. I intend to be 100% present and aware.
After that, going back home to be totally unconscious on my bed. And then, moar work. MOAR!