1. There is no right way.
It doesn't exist.
There is no right way. You just make things up as you go along.
There are many ways to lose the oldest game, as Neil Gaiman (chaos be upon him) wrote. Failure to roll into a defensive shape, hesitation, lack of imagination...
Greatest people I know, they roll with the punches. You have a big picture sketch, at the most. You don't know what's going to happen.
And who is to say what is right, and what is wrong? Not me. Not you. Not anybody.
2. Happiness is a choice.
And so is misery.
3. Typing, while naked, is extremely sexy.